Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Positive Adoption Language



Have you been struggling with trying to find the "right way" to identify your unique family and to share your story in the most positive, child-friendly way?  For most of us, there are things we say about our adoption experience that we know may not be the best way or the right way, so I searched out some articles on Positive Adoption Language from others who have been touched by adoption.  Hopefully you find them helpful.

Positive Language Changes the Face of Adoption, Written March 2014 by Heidi Schlumpf

Positive Adoption Language written in 2005 by Dr. Glahn http://aspire2.blogspot.com/2005/05/positive-adoption-language.html         

Talking about Adoption with others, Bethany LifeLines Magazine: http://www.bethanylifelines.org/talking-about-adoption-with-others/  

Also sharing your child’s adoption story with them and others:
Adoptive Families Magazine has some great articles to address talking to your kids, their school and others: http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/talking     

Adoption Mosaic, a local agency in Oregon started by Astrid Debbeni has a great article on talking to your kids about adoption:  http://www.adoptionmosaic.org/talking-to-your-kids-about-adoption-11-tips/        
  
The Child Welfare Information Gateway has some great articles as well on how to talk about adoption: www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/adopt_parenting/talking.cfm
 
National Council for Adoption, Adoption Advocate No. 42: Talking to Your Child About Adoption: Recommendations for Parents article. https://www.adoptioncouncil.org/publications/adoption-advocate-no-42.html            

Bethany LifeLines Magazine “ A Mother’s Tips for Helping Children Handle Adoption Questions at School”:  http://www.bethanylifelines.org/your-childs-education/#mother-tips        

Paulette Caswell, LICSW
Branch Director of Pacific Northwest

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